The Compassionate
Dominatrix
Can a Dominatrix
be Compassionate?
Many people look at
a dominatrix as less than a real person. She
is someone who is so strong and powerful
that she must be beyond emotion. Any
dominatrix can tell you that the idea of
them not having feelings is simply not true.
She feels just as everyone else does. In
fact, she must be even more in touch with
her emotions than other people, because she
is not only taking care of herself, but her
partner as well.
In order to be a successful dominatrix, a
woman must possess several important
qualities. If the role of domination gets
into the wrong hands, it can be met with
horrific results. Therefore, before a
submissive enters a relationship with a
dominant, he must make sure that the
dominant is worthy of him.
A worthy dominatrix will be compassionate.
She will be in touch with the needs of her
submissive. She will understand that she
cannot control the relationship based only
on her own wants and desires. She must
understand the wants and desires of her
partner as well. That is one of the most
important aspects of a dominant and
submissive relationship.
Many do not realize that a submissive is not
the only one who must be concerned about the
desires of the partner. While many people
think of this type of relationship as one
where the submissive serves the dominant
that is not entirely true. In fact, the
submissive has to get something out of the
relationship as well.
A dominatrix enters into a relationship with
a submissive in the hopes of having a
mutually satisfying relationship. That
cannot be achieved without compassion.
By exhibiting compassion, the dominatrix
will also be able to connect better with her
submissive. By opening herself up to the
feelings of the submissive and caring about
him, she is strengthening the bond between
the two of them. The bond will become
healthy and then grow into something truly
special.
A dominatrix is not only with a submissive
in order to dominate him. She is there to
help him grow as a person and guide him
along the path needed for that growth. It is
important that she enter a relationship with
someone that she cares about and can relate
to so she can have the necessary compassion
in order to allow the submissive to get his
needs met.
A dominatrix must respect her submissive so
she will take care of him properly. A
submissive should never enter a relationship
where he is not respected, as that is a way
for him to get hurt, both emotionally and
physically.
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